Just a Thought or Two

Tomorrow we enter the 25th year of the anniversary of the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA). As a result of this landmark legislation, the playing field has been leveled for people with disabilities. Contrary to popular belief, the main focus was not accessibility, but employment. Along with that though, in conjunction, public places were required to consider people with disabilities when building, remodeling, etc. Most importantly, it entitled that I and all others with disabilities have a fair shot when obtaining employment. It is not affirmative action. It does not guarantee that I will get a job over someone who does not have a disability. One aspect that often gets overlooked when discussing the ADA is the important piece about providin g accommodations. The law states that in order to perform the essential functions of the job, employers must provide reasonable accommodations.  How was that for a brief history lesson? Until you know, wait let me qualify that, until...

A month later, the "see you later" was a bit overwhelming. I wasn't prepared for the onslaught of tears as I sat in my office overwhelmed by it all. It only got worse when I looked at the clock and realized I had an hour and a half to go before I could go home. And still worse as I had to wait 30 minutes for my ride home. More time for me to realize that life must go on. Honestly, all I want to do is cry- but I'm done. I refuse to succumb to the sadness that hits me at the oddest times. God is still in control- he will wipe my tears and hold me when all I can do is fall on my knees and pray. On a lighter, happier note...okay, I have nothing but this: when you feel sad and down, just remember that sometimes all you can do is laugh- whether intentionally or not, laughter is an amazing thing. Never ever forget that- there is always something we can laugh about.  Enjoy the ones God has placed in your life- cherish them, love them, support them in their ti...

I spent the holiday weekend with some amazing friends. It was an unbelievable weekend filled with lots of laughter, a few tears, and memories I will never forget! I am blessed with incredible friends- this weekend defined friendship for me- real, genuine, be-there-till-the-end friendship. Some have tried to tell me that spending the weekend in a house that isn't accessible is too much work for anyone to deal with. I know it wasn't easy, but it was so worth it- if nothing else, it was good exercise! If I didn't go anywhere unless it was accessible, I'd have no life. Friendship isn't always about needing to do something. It's about spending time with the ones we love- people who value   you as their friend. Just taking it easy and enjoying each other's company. Being open and honest, straightforward and genuine. Friendship is being there for each other- through the good and the bad, no matter the distance or the all-too-soon "see you later." Frie...

This morning I found myself frustrated as I realized that I had an accident- thanks CP for the weak bladder- Depends are this girl's best friend, especially considering how much I laugh! Oh, well, life goes on- just another thing I will always have to deal with. As I was eating lunch this afternoon, I found myself confident that I was in fact in God's will. A great church, a great job, great coworkers- the best I could ask for- and an exciting possibility at work that would literally make such a difference in my life. An hour later I found myself questioning everything. "Is this really where I'm supposed to be?" "Why would God seemingly close this door- a logical next step?"I honestly am so confused more often than not anymore and I'm tired of it in more ways than one. I'll keep going and trust that it will work out because He guides my footsteps. More than anything, I pray for wisdom and discernment. Pray with me, friends? I found out that...