Just a Thought or Two

As we approach the end of National Disability Employment Awareness Month (NDEAM), let me take a few minutes to share what employment means to me. My very first job didn't come until the summer of 2010 as I ended my junior year in college. I was so excited. You see, I had longed for this opportunity for years! Because of my physical challenges, I was unable to work as a waitress, cashier, etc. In my tiny little town, a very large percentage of the jobs available to college students were those I could not do. So, I didn't even bother applying to them. Back then, I was still set on working with kids, however, I could never get hired by local day cares. It used to make me so mad, knowing how good I was with kids, but constantly being shot down. Was it because of CP? I don't know, maybe. I just wanted a job. Volunteering was great, but it never lasted long. I remember filling out the third application for the call center (The Connection), feeling pretty discouraged, and un...

As we approach World CP Day, let me take a few minutes to reflect. There are many, many things that frustrate me about CP, but there are also many things I am grateful for: CP has allowed me to appreciate: I appreciate those in my life who take the time to listen; those who love me for me; I appreciate little moments; I appreciate struggle; I appreciate loneliness. CP has taught me empathy: The ability to not sympathize, but relate in a genuine way to others who may be facing challenges. CP has taught me perseverance: In all that I do, never giving up. I am not a quitter, I work harder because my life is harder. However, that is no excuse, I will push myself harder than anyone else ever could. CP has taught me patience: Much of my life has been spent waiting because I have had to depend on others. Patience is a virtue I have mastered. I am grateful for patience because I have had the opportunity to reflect.  CP has taught me how to become a great listener: Picking up sub...