As people with disabilities (or as people in general), we often find ourselves having to prove that we are more than capable of doing certain things despite our struggles and limitations. Over and over and over. It is exhausting, it is hard. Sometimes we realize that we have to prove ourselves to those we expect to be our staunchest supporters, our loudest cheerleaders. When that happens, maybe it takes our breath away, maybe it shocks us, maybe it cuts deep into our soul.
Often, we are left speechless, perhaps we feel slighted or insulted. Maybe as we process, all we can do is cry silent tears and send a text to a dear friend and mentor so we can be reminded of our worth. Maybe we need to laugh and vent with our best friend. Maybe we need to keep processing to move forward. We must always move forward- otherwise, bitterness destroys. When that happens, it becomes even easier for us to focus on our struggles and limitations.
During times when abilities are called into question, we need to remind ourselves that actions speak so much louder than words. Let's rise up every single day to show those around us that we are more than capable. Do so with grace, with a smile, and with joy.
When we feel like we're in a losing battle, when we're exhausted fighting against the stereotypes of disability (or life), let's turn to those in our life whom we trust the most. Because they will remind us of our worth, they will remind us that we can get through whatever battle we are facing, they will be there as we fall apart. It is okay to fall apart, but remember to rise up with confidence, to fight on. We are not defined by our disabilities. Ever. God created each of us for a purpose. If we let Him, He will guide us in this thing called life, surrounding us with His love and people who will support and love us.
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